So nice of you to drop by!

My name is Mary Lauren. I am a wife to a man usually found in flannel & a mama to the sweetest little guy. We live in a little house near the ocean, spending our days cuddling while the roosters, frogs and horses orchestrate our ongoing soundtrack. My background is in business and economics and some days, I am not sure how that happened. My heart is in design, art, and anything lovely… really. I have an unhealthy obsession for tiny gold jewels, mid century thrift finds and succulents.

Stay as long as you’d like, I’d love to hear from you!

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  • Reply A Journey Shared

    I’ve only just perused through your blog but it is absolutely stunning! I love your photos and adventures. Cheers!

    November 24, 2012 at 10:31 pm
  • Reply Linda Lorick

    Just the kind of girl I love!

    November 24, 2012 at 11:12 pm
  • Reply Lindsay johnson

    Lauren this is bizarre. You completely nailed, word for word, two of my many quirks. Collecting dishes and never using them, and lovig fashion but hating getting ready! Like for REAL, Michael is even laughing about the dish thing. Drives him crazy! We really are sisters. Love the new pic!!

    November 25, 2012 at 10:04 am
  • Reply Lindsay johnson

    Lauren this is bizarre. You completely nailed, word for word, two of my many quirks. Collecting dishes and never using them, and lovig fashion but hating getting ready! Like for REAL, Michael is even laughing about the dish thing. Drives him crazy! We really are sisters. Love the new pic!!!

    November 25, 2012 at 10:22 am
  • Reply efonnesbeck

    I LOVE this photo. 😉

    December 3, 2012 at 2:23 pm
  • Reply efonnesbeck

    And you’re wearing the shark tooth that you blogged about a while back!

    December 3, 2012 at 2:24 pm
  • Reply Afsi Siahkoohi

    Just stumbled upon your blog and have been lost for an hour. Great writing and pictures! You have a new follower.

    December 3, 2012 at 8:37 pm
  • Reply Kaylee Nye

    Completely random I was just reading a wonderful post about 10 things to be happier in your home and really loving it. I found it on pinterest. I thought this lady seems to have some nice thoughts clicked on the “about” and it just so happens to be a long lost friend Lauren! Just wanted to say hi loved your post definitely going to use it in my home and have my husband try as well! So happy you are doing well!

    December 6, 2012 at 4:50 pm
  • Reply Kristin :)

    I’m loving your blog girl! The pictures/quotes are awesome 🙂

    December 13, 2012 at 12:00 pm
  • Reply Stephanie

    I’ve just started going through your blog, but I LOVE it 🙂 Everything is beautiful.


    Sparkly Quirky Lifebox

    December 14, 2012 at 10:44 am
  • Reply Christmas List, Part II « Georgiana in Real Life

    […] friends, around the internet, and at the office.  This awesome post about being happier at home by headed somewhere references the book a few times.  I am excited to see what else is hidden between this […]

    December 21, 2012 at 11:03 am
  • Reply Rachel Harman

    What do you do for a living? It seems that you go on a lot of adventures and travel quite a bit. How do you afford all of this? And how do you have the time?

    December 23, 2012 at 9:54 pm
  • Reply headedsomewhere

    Wow! Thank you… I had to do some googling on marketing terminology. I am obviously new at this. 🙂 Thank you so much for your input!

    January 5, 2013 at 7:19 pm
  • Reply Frances

    I’ve never really read a personal blog before, nor have I ever chosen to follow one, let alone written a comment on one… Yet I find myself doing so right now, because your pictures are GORGEOUS and I really like the way you write. So, er, thank you, I guess! Your blog makes me want to start my own!

    March 6, 2013 at 10:09 am
  • Reply The Recessionista Closet

    hahaha omg story of my life. Except somehow i got marketing mixed in my majors so it’s is somewhat relate-able to my personality 🙂 love your blog!!

    March 15, 2013 at 8:05 am
  • Reply Makenzie

    I love your blog! You have such an inspiring perspective on life and I haven’t been able to stop reading your blog since I found it yesterday. Silly question, but how do you put the words on your pictures?

    April 3, 2013 at 12:21 pm
    • Reply headedsomewhere

      Hi Makenzie!

      Thank you!! You are so sweet.

      I use a few different programs to put words onto pictures. I used to use photoshop a lot, but now I use the app “phonto” on my phone or Picasa (both you can download for free I believe.) I prefer photoshop when I have the time, but the other 2 make it so fast, sometimes I can’t resist taking the short cut!

      April 21, 2013 at 9:38 pm
  • Reply Books, Tea & Me

    Hey, I just want to let you know I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger award! You can view your nomination, along with the other nominees, here:
    Keep up the great work!

    May 27, 2013 at 1:07 pm
  • Reply melbasunshine

    Hey I know how it feels to have a background in Business but a passion for design art and all things lovely…I’m the same. Loving exploring your blog

    January 26, 2014 at 6:15 am
  • Reply Mandy Straight

    Hello! so happy to have found you. You are good people 🙂

    April 9, 2014 at 1:53 pm
  • Reply Kristyn

    I love how you mention that you went into business/econ but are a very creative person. I sold my academic soul to social sciences (history, politics, econ) and yet I came home after graduation to be in a band. It’s funny how life turns out lol. Glad to find a kindred spirit!

    April 13, 2015 at 2:01 am
    • Reply

      HAHA!! This made me laugh. Glad I’m not the only one!

      May 6, 2015 at 4:45 am
  • Reply Elyssa

    Where do you live?! It looks like heaven!

    June 24, 2015 at 1:30 am
    • Reply

      We live in North County San Diego! 🙂

      June 24, 2015 at 7:16 am
      • Reply Anonymous

        I’m moving there (Carlsbad) in a few months from Ocean Beach SD. Not that I want your address but I’m very interested in a country road by the ocean. Is there more than housing developments there? Is it a far drive to the beach?

        January 24, 2016 at 7:34 pm
        • Reply


          Sorry for the late response! We live on the Vista Carlsbad border, south of the 78 fwy. For us, its about a 10 minute drive to the closest beach which would be Oceanside.

          It’s a very unique area… not much like it in North County.

          January 29, 2016 at 3:36 pm
  • Reply Lea @ Healthy Coconut

    I went to college at SDSU, and lived in North County SD after college, around Del Mar/Mira Mesa area.

    I love your blog because your pictures reminds me of my time there. I live in Orange County now with my toddler son and I appreciate the simpleness of your post/pics /words.

    July 8, 2015 at 9:52 am
  • Reply jaime

    Your photos are incredible! And I love that you love thrifting for mid-century finds! I have a friend on the hunt for an old, yellow Samsonite carry on bag from the 60’s, so keep your eyes peeled!! 😉

    August 27, 2015 at 10:49 am
    • Reply

      THANK YOU! I will keep my eyes open. haha unless I decide to keep it for myself. 😉

      August 27, 2015 at 9:01 pm
  • Reply Che'Lyssa

    Hi Mary Lauren! I love your blog! I stumbled upon it through Instagram one day and I’m hooked! You are an inspiration 🙂

    Aloha from Hawaii,

    December 17, 2015 at 11:28 am
    • Reply

      Thank you SO much! Made my day. 🙂

      December 17, 2015 at 8:35 pm
  • Reply Lila C.

    I recently stumbled upon your instagram feed. I can tell I am going to love your blog. Happy New Year!

    Lila C.

    January 1, 2016 at 10:02 pm
  • Reply Emily Vocke

    Hi there 🙂 So happy I stumbled upon your Instagram your family reminds me of my own! I recently opened a children’s boutique in a small coastal town in Maryland & would love, love to hang the piece of art in your house that says “Be the person you want your child to become” could you tell me where you found it? Such great words to live by!!

    January 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm
    • Reply

      This is actually a letter board that has interchangeable plastic letters. This idea was just floating in my head… not sure if it’s a quote, but I certainly can’t be the first person to have said it. The boards are great though. They are by @letterfolkco if you want to check them out. BUT! I will be selling something similar to this in the next month or so in my easy shop. So check back if you’d like! 🙂

      January 11, 2016 at 3:48 pm
  • Reply michelle

    hello! Just found your blog and I ‘one all your photos. May I ask what kind of camera you use? Are most of your post pictures from your phone (b/c I saw where you use a phone app to edit some stuff) or do you use a real camera?

    January 18, 2016 at 4:51 pm
    • Reply michelle

      Oops! That was supposed to say LOVE all your photos!!

      January 18, 2016 at 4:52 pm
  • Reply Joanna

    Hello beautiful! Could you post a short tutorial showing how you do a top knot??

    January 30, 2016 at 6:46 pm
    • Reply

      Great idea! Will put this on my subject list. 🙂

      February 10, 2016 at 3:46 pm
  • Reply Sally

    Hey Mary Lauren!
    I just can’t get enough of your blog! Your photos are amazing.
    Bless you and your sweet sweet family.
    xo Sally

    February 29, 2016 at 1:32 pm
    • Reply

      Thank you Sally!!

      February 29, 2016 at 3:40 pm
  • Reply Joey Krez

    When I saw this warm and loving life that you’ve built for yourself, I became blanketed in happiness. And this is for more reasons than you would think. We all have our paths and it looks like you’re coasting down yours with a smile. Love it….keep up the beautiful work.

    March 5, 2016 at 8:33 pm
  • Reply Tylan

    Mary, you are my favourite person in the world and I am in love love love with your little fam!! I am wondering where I would be able to purchase you book!?

    March 6, 2016 at 2:03 pm
  • Reply Rebecca grace

    Your photos and life are gorgeous! Loving seeing your happy little family!

    March 16, 2016 at 7:12 pm
  • Reply joan

    Hello . I come from Polish and I have one question . You have a beautiful bag. Where did it come from? Maybe there is a chance that I order a similar . I really like your blog and you’re my great inspiration . Also I have a two year old son 🙂 Regards Joan

    March 17, 2016 at 8:45 am
  • Reply Jordan A.

    Your photos are beautiful! May I ask what camera you use, as well as what photo editor ( if any)
    The whole esthetic of your site is gorgeous, definitely a fan!

    March 17, 2016 at 1:24 pm
  • Reply Chelsea

    Hi! I love Ezra’s little birthday romper from Crew & Lu! I know they run big and my little guy is about the same size as Ezra, what size did you get? Love your website, makes me miss California!

    April 5, 2016 at 8:52 am
    • Reply

      We got 12-18 months… just went one size down.

      There are LITERALLY my favorite thing of his. We wear them all the time!

      April 13, 2016 at 12:49 pm
  • Reply Arlene Leilani

    Hello Mary Lauren!
    I absolutely fell in love with your blog once I came across it via an instagram post of yours! I am fascinated by the quality of your photos! They have this white airy feel to them that I have been trying to achieve in my photos. I would really love to know what camera you use for these elegant shots! Do you use all natural lighting? I’d love to know. Keep being amazing!

    April 9, 2016 at 12:17 am
    • Reply

      Hi Arlene!

      Thanks for your comment!! 🙂 I use my iPhone 6 and yes ONLY natural lighting. 🙂

      May 16, 2016 at 7:30 pm
  • Reply Lilab Graphic

    Nice to meet you!
    I love your beautiful photos and your style, thanks for sharing your inspiring life!

    May 8, 2016 at 10:35 am
  • Reply Saminette

    Dear Mary,

    I’m Sam and I’m an English teacher in France. I started following you on Instagram a few days ago as saminette_ and today I decided to take a look at your website.

    I just wanted to let you know your pictures are stunning and your family is very inspirational! I just love how you seem to live life to the fullest in the simplest way.

    May 20, 2016 at 1:53 pm
    • Reply

      Hi Sam!

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment. So sincere, I truly appreciate your kindness. 🙂

      May 30, 2016 at 11:11 pm
  • Reply Jenny

    Hi Mary-Lauren,
    Commenting all the way from London, England here – huge fan of your Instagram and now blog. I’m a new mum going through a rough patch and you give me hope (and inspiration!) so thank you most sincerely.
    As a photographer I am interested to know how you take many of your pictures with yourself and your beautiful boy? Do you have someone take them for you or use tripod/remote?
    Thank you for your time,

    May 29, 2016 at 12:51 am
    • Reply


      Thank you for your comment! I truly hope you can find happiness and peace quickly! 🙂

      My husband takes a lot of the photos of both my son and I in them. I also have a little tripod I use occasionally, but not too often. 🙂

      May 30, 2016 at 11:08 pm
  • Reply Lila

    That is a beautiful picture. I love that tree.

    June 10, 2016 at 3:40 am
  • Reply Natalie Lentz

    Hi Mary Lauren, totally in love with your blog and photographs. I see you never do clarify who takes your family pics! They look super professional but wondering who tags along on all your family adventures to capture such wonderful memories? All we manage is a rather distorted family selfie where most of us look -well frankly – rather frazzled! 😉 how do you do it? X Nats

    July 5, 2016 at 2:45 am
    • Reply Mary Lauren

      It just depends! 🙂 Anytime we have a photo out and about of the three of us, we are usually just with friends and they snap it for us. If we are at home we occasionally pull out the tripod, but that’s a lot of work so only on rare occasion. ha!

      July 5, 2016 at 3:23 pm
      • Reply Anonymous

        Well your pics are gorgeous! Just love them x

        July 12, 2016 at 12:24 am
  • Reply Cassidy Wehde

    Hi Mary Lauren!

    I am from Trades of Hope and we love your photos and blog posts. Trades of Hope is a socially responsible business that is committed to empowering women out of poverty across the globe through fashion. We would like to send you some free samples of our jewelry. We love partnering with women around the globe and would be honored to have you help us spread the word about their story and success. Feel free to look at our website and contact me for more details or questions.

    I look forward to hearing from you soon! 

    July 18, 2016 at 10:01 am
  • Reply Erin Patrick

    Love this description. Beautiful website, fabulous aesthetic, great writing.

    July 22, 2016 at 7:46 am

    how old are you?
    i love your family!
    how old you married ?
    greetings from Guatemala

    August 1, 2016 at 2:56 pm
    • Reply Mary Lauren


      Thank you so much!

      I am 28, was married at 24. 🙂 Best decision I’ve made!

      August 6, 2016 at 10:09 pm
  • Reply Vania Davalos-Martinez

    Hi Mary! Fellow new mommy to a 7 month old baby boy. I’ve decided to start up my own blog as a creative outlet as well. I just wanted to reach out as I had a question about your photo taking. I’ve read in previous posts that you use your iPhone and vsco. I’ve been using the same so I was curious as to what filter you use on vsco for your photos. Also, what tripod and remote so you use?


    August 20, 2016 at 7:36 am
  • Reply Angie

    OMG! I love your blog and your style! I just have to ask! Where did you get your couch?!? I love the gray hue! I just got married and my house is so empty! We have an ugly couch that was given to us, and I am ready to part with it!

    October 11, 2016 at 8:51 pm
    • Reply Mary Lauren


      We got it in a shop called Urban Fusion in San Diego! 🙂

      October 17, 2016 at 8:58 pm
  • Reply Hayley

    Hello! Love your blog, what is your theme called? It’s beautiful.

    November 11, 2016 at 11:05 pm
  • Reply Brianne

    So I’m slightly obsessed with your hair, I’m sure I’m not the only one. The different styles, how you do your messy bun, the soft waves, etc. What kind of hair products do you use? Is your hair thick? Your hair always looks on point even if you say you use dry shampoo often.

    December 12, 2016 at 1:48 pm
  • Reply Pamela

    I found you through IG and I am loving your blog now. I was wondering what color your KitchenAid pots are. They look similar to copper but not exact. I would love to find that color. Thanks so much!

    January 6, 2017 at 6:44 am
    • Reply Mary Lauren

      Hello! They are called Toffee Delight! 🙂

      January 7, 2017 at 11:36 pm
  • Reply Kat

    Im loving your page! Great Work! what inspired you to do a blog?
    Where did your blog name come from?

    January 11, 2017 at 11:23 am
  • Reply Anonymous

    Hello! Your blog and instagram feed is beautiful! Do you mind sharing how you get all your photos to look so cohesive?

    February 6, 2017 at 10:55 am
  • Reply Anonymous

    Hello! Your blog and instagram feed is beautiful! Do you mind sharing how you get all your photos to look cohesive?

    February 6, 2017 at 10:58 am
  • Reply Lauren

    Hiya lady!
    I was recently looking at Sugarhouse Supply and I saw you were out of Adobe Oaxacan Wool Rug Runner, and I was wondering when you would get it in again? My home needs it! hah thank you so much!

    March 7, 2017 at 9:58 am
  • Reply Daria

    I love your life and your way to spend it. I want to have a perfect life and a perfect relationship like you,and i can say you are my model.

    June 24, 2017 at 4:02 am
  • Reply Lindsey

    Hi Lauren I’m Lindsey I wanted to ask you a question about any of your recent music playlists, if you would be able to give me a list of songs & artists if possible I’m wanting to update my music and your songs are really good to listen to! Thank you. Hope you are having a wonderful week. Merry Christmas + Happy New Year’s!

    December 20, 2017 at 2:02 pm
  • Reply Kristi

    This is so random, and I don’t usually comment on things, but I have a question! I LOVE your gray sofa in the “Be Happier in Your Home” cover photo, where did you get it??

    January 17, 2018 at 1:08 pm
    • Reply Mary Lauren

      It is from Urban Fusion in San Diego! I linked their profile on one of my most recent IG posts. 🙂

      January 17, 2018 at 9:50 pm

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